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Staying focused on graduation: Booker T. seniors cross the stage after difficult year

With COVID-19 in the background, these two Dallas graduates faced health crises ahead of graduation day.

Principal Scott Rudes didn’t want to use the word “unprecedented” when addressing Booker T. Washington High School for the Performing and Visual Arts’ Class of 2021. Instead, he wanted to focus on “remarkable” and “visionary.”

The Booker T. graduates, like students across the country, emerged through stretches of isolation and loneliness. Some took on extra jobs to help their families as parents lost work. Others stepped in to help younger siblings navigate virtual learning. They navigated grief.

Over the past 15 months, the coronavirus pandemic upended the traditions — and renowned performances — that students and teachers treasure at the magnet school nestled in Dallas’ arts district.

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Two graduates faced especially significant personal challenges, dealing with health crises and lingering uncertainty, ahead of taking home their diplomas.

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Still, on Saturday, the senior class celebrated a final milestone: crossing the graduation stage, together. Rudes says their strength will continue to be reflected in their lives and in their art.

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School after surgery

After spending hours of class looking at her peers and instructors through small squares on Zoom in her final fall semester of high school, Eryn Fayson began looking forward to returning to school in-person during the spring.

She longed to build props again for elaborate theater performances instead of submitting plans for sets online.

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But when it was time for Eryn to return to campus, unexplained nausea and headaches kept her away. Doctors diagnosed her with a brain tumor and explained that treatment would have to move quickly.

Eryn underwent five surgeries in April. She celebrated her 18th birthday in an intensive care unit. She missed prom and plenty of other hallmark events that signify the end of high school. Through it all, she remained focused on graduation.

She worked to finish assignments in advance of her surgeries, knowing that it would be more complicated to work on them after, when she struggled to regain motor skills.

“Right when she got out of surgery, one of the first things she was worried about was her assignments, her work,” said Eryn’s sister, Crislyn. “In surgery, you would think that would be the last thing that was on your mind.”

Eryn’s father, Chris, accompanied her to all the treatments and helped her relearn to walk and write. Together they celebrated incremental changes, like when Eryn was able to sign her name in a buddy’s graduation card.

He watched as his daughter, known for mapping out her plans well in advance, adapted over and over to new obstacles.

“Her walk has taught me, even though I’m a lot older, it taught me about the smaller things in life that you should appreciate — the little-bitty things that you’re able to do,” Chris said.

Eryn still has another seven to 10 months of chemotherapy ahead of her. And after that, Eryn plans to enroll at Southern Methodist University in an accounting program.

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“It’s going to be amazing,” she said. “I’m just excited that I get to graduate, and they think of me that highly.”

‘The music is there’

During those first 10 days her son was in the hospital, Tina Bilbrey didn’t know if he would live.

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A distracted driver had crashed into 18-year-old Korbin’s car head-on. He suffered broken bones, a traumatic brain injury and a collapsed lung that somehow seemed to be the least of the doctors’ concerns.

As Korbin recovered, Bilbrey wondered: Would he be able to play his guitars again? Would he remember his music, holding on to his ability to play by ear?

Korbin came home from a two-month hospital and rehabilitation stay Thursday. His electric guitar waited for him. As he played the Epiphone in his room for the first time, his parents looked on from the doorway.

“The music is there,” Bilbrey said.

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The Booker T. community rallied around the family, organizing a meal train. Friends launched a GoFundMe that raised more than $50,000 to help cover medical expenses.

On the page, the Bilbreys sent updates, keeping people in the loop as Korbin emerged from a coma and as his feeding tube came out. On May 20, they wrote: “Our hope is that he crosses the stage and gets his diploma.”

On Saturday, he did — though in the wheelchair he uses as his hip continues to mend. The Bilbreys’ East Dallas home, finally loud again, is filled with a mix of “Welcome home” and “Congrats grad” balloons.

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Korbin told hospital workers how important it was for him to be out ahead of graduation, one of those special days impossible to replicate.

“I know it’s one of those things I can never go back to do,” he said.

For his mom, it’s a moment that signifies his survival.

“He gets to go on,” she said.

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